I don’t like a person, I don’t want to see them again” That applies to all people – men, women, romantic or platonic.
So what distinguishes when a guy goes on a date, has a good time, but is just “in the moment, and doesn’t call me back, versus a guy who had a good time with me and then calls me back? the guy knows this date isn’t going to be serious, before the date occurs?
Not if he told you he loves you, not if he slept with you.
Only if he calls you the next day to make another date can you be really sure.
Your preferences can be adjusted to filter matches to your desires.
And if they don’t mean anything to me, then it’s because I don’t want to interact with that person.
Dear Jean, I’m going to drop the dating coach bit for a second and just be a guy.
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