In a thread of mine I'm too lazy to seearch for, much less link too, someone opined that six months is too long to wait for sex in a dating relationship. So I ask you: how long is too long to wait for the first two-backed-beast making?
Do you make any allowances for a person's special circumstances? I'd have to do all the options for gay and straight and bi and male and female and transsexual and frankly I can't be bothered.
He and I agreed that night to stop seeing other people, and we went on to date for four months, which is close to a record amount of time for me.(The Frisky) -- First thing one morning I got a text from one of my friends, the kind I get all too often: "Met my future husband last night!" My response was my standard one: "Get back to me in three months." If I've learned one valuable thing from the dating whirligig I've been on for the last six years (give or take six months here or there), it's that you must wait at least three months before getting excited about the long-term possibilities of a new person.So eventually, I decided, eh, what the hell, I'd give in to his demands! me) have much stronger emotional reactions to sex than men do.
Studies have shown that the bonding hormone, oxytocin, gets released in both men and women when they're touching, holding hands, kissing or snuggling.Waiting for marriage does not seem terribly worth doing, to me.